Woman declares readiness for marriage without dating, says talking stage is scary
A Nigerian Woman sparked confusion as she revealed her readiness for marriage without dating, stating that the talking stage scares her.
This was contained in a lengthy statement she made in a video on her page on a popular social media platform, TikTok.
In the video, she said she is ready to get married without actually going through the process of dating or the talking stage, as she finds it intimidating.
Her statement: “The talking stage scares me because, at the end of the day, they’re just going to be asking questions, and you spend 2-3 months talking to that particular person only to find out that you guys are not compatible.”
“Then you realize the person doesn’t eat onions or something like that, and it turns out you can’t work together. I’m really exhausted; I don’t want to date, but I want to get married.”
She further added, “This is the time we’re supposed to do it Islamically. The guy will just go directly to my parents, and if my parents approve, I’ll just marry him. I’m sure my parents won’t approve someone who isn’t good.”
After she made this statement and her video went online, concerned individuals flocked to the comment section of the post to share their thoughts.
