Bride Made To Sit On Father-In-Law’s Lap 7 Times At Edo Wedding (Photos, Video)
A wedding ceremony in Edo State has stirred online discussions after a video surfaced showing a bride sitting on her father-in-law’s lap multiple times.
This act, rooted in Edo tradition, symbolizes the bride being handed over to her new family. The father of the bride typically sits her on the groom’s father’s lap seven times as a ceremonial gesture of transfer and a plea for the groom’s family to care for her.
While many defended the practice as an integral part of their culture, some netizens expressed discomfort with the method, arguing that it might not resonate well in modern times. One user commented, “Some things need to change. Not because the intention is bad, but because the method is.”
Others passionately upheld the tradition, emphasizing its symbolic value. Another commenter wrote, “This is normal in our tradition. It’s called handing over; it’s not just symbolic but a heartfelt gesture to ensure the bride is received with love and care by her new family.”
The video has sparked a wider conversation about balancing cultural preservation with evolving societal norms.
